I can relate to friends who have a spouse that travel for a living, whether it's military or for business. I've come to the conclusion that it's really difficult no matter how strong your character.
My husband has left for a few weeks to California before, and while our life has been interrupted, it has not changed our family dynamics for the short period he's gone. I cannot complain about the stormy feelings of resentment, love & regret for his business travels like some of my friends have to struggle with. I truly miss my partner and friend while he is gone. While life goes on and our children grow, I feel we all do not collaborate as well while he is away. I cannot pretend life would be better without my partner in crime. So tonight I am grateful my husband is home and does not have to leave again soon.